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Student Nightlines and Obscene/Abusive Callers
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If
you are thinking about training as a volunteer for your university's Nightline
service then you would be well advised to investigate their policies on dealing
with obscene and abusive callers, before or during training, particularly if you
are a female (and therefore more likely to receive such calls).
The
first thing to say about obscene/abusive calls to anyone considering
becoming a Nightline volunteer is that, for the majority of Nightlines,
obscene or abusive calls are a very small proportion of the calls received
and are dealt with robustly by hanging up. However,
unfortunately some Nightlines do not have sound, evidence-based policies
and there are a number of student-run Nightlines which encourage their
volunteers to take calls from callers who are getting sexual gratification
from the call (often known as telephone masturbators or telephone
scatologists). This is usually in the mistaken belief that they can
help these callers by taking their calls, a belief which has been shown to
be faulty. It is worth noting that a major national helpline once
attempted to offer a service which would take calls from sexually obscene
callers, but closed it down when it became clear that it was not helping
the callers to resolve their problem.
Nightlines
are usually run entirely by students (often undergraduates) and although
there is an umbrella body called National Nightline, this does not define
rules for Nightlines in detail. Policies on dealing with
obscene/abusive callers vary widely and, while many Nightlines such as
Oxford do not subject their volunteers to taking such calls, sadly some
do. There is evidence that the effects of taking obscene calls on
female volunteers can sometimes be similar to the effects of sexual
abuse. It is fair to say that listening to obscene calls is in fact
a form of sexual abuse in itself, as the obscene callers tend to be
manipulative, predatory and abusive.
Oxford
Nightline does not take obscene or abusive calls, but I can't comment on
any of the other Nightlines. If you are thinking about training as a
Nightline volunteer at any university, please don't let the above put you
off - many Nightlines have sensible policies in place which mean they do
not receive many obscene calls, and they do not take them when they
do. If you are a prospective volunteer and concerned about obscene
calls, find out what your Nightline's policy is and make your own
judgement based on that.
Last
updated 23 April 2007
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